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Anonymous Workplace Sexual Harassment Allegations Testimonies
I have a job in an office, it started off really well. I had a good relationship with my married male boss but made the mistake of telling him I wasn't getting on with my husband. From that day onwards he started smacking my ass whenever we were on our own and I walked past him. I have a curvy figure with a large bust which he frequently commented on, it made me blush but i ignored it. He started to mention this when we were on our own and mentioned other sexual innuendos. I'm not someone who would raise their voice, I have a shy character/personality and not someone who complains. So when he asked me to work late one night i agreed. At one stage he cornered me and pressed up against me and started to kiss me on the mouth. I protested, but politely, he attempted it again and this time put his hand inside my blouse and bra and was attempting to kiss my breast. He then pulled me in to his private office. I protested but he ignored me. Within minutes he had laid me on the sofa chair and was trying to pull my underwear down, several minutes later i managed to run out. I said to myself I won't allow it to happen again, but he has persisted in pursuing me. He says he just wants me once a week and threatened me not to tell anyone or he'll tell my husband that we are an item. My husband and I have become closer now so I'm in a dilemma about what to do.
My male boss pinches my ass, smacks it, or brushes against my chest on a daily basis. I need my job so try to laugh it off. I’m 45 years of age. He regularly makes jokes with male colleagues about me. We recently hired a young girl who is 18 and it’s her first job. She has now started to become the focus of his attention. He called her in to his office the other day and asked her some very personal questions on the pretext of finding out if she was suitable to work late some evenings with him. When she came out of his office her face was red. I asked her what had happened. She said he wanted to know if she had a bf and how many x a week she saw him. He also asked how often she was intimate with him. I want to stand up to him but know i can’t afford to lose this job. Its the same with all the women here. Men are still behaving like Jeffrey Epstein and sexually harassing women in the workplace.
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